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ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?


During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am with the right person?”

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?”
In all seriousness, she answered “How did you know?”
“Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.” replied the author.

Here’s the answer:

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.

People in love sometimes say, I was swept of my feet. Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this)

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: the universe determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go!

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~Ref and Bio update~

Name: OB-RN, Oberon, Obi (nickname)

Species: Enderman cyborg

Age: Unknown

Likes: Magic, mining, exploring, teasing

Dislikes: Water, sunlight (to an extent), humans, most everyone

Personality: (Before accident) Bit brutish, but much kinder than his current personality. (Current) Much more aggressive, seemingly uncaring towards everyone/thing.

Background: Once a normal Enderman, who took a strong liking to magic after watching and befriending a witch. He learned a few spells and how to make a few potions while staying with her. One day while the witch was out gathering materials, Oberon took one of her spell books and tried to practice a spell that was much too strong for him. It backfired on the ender, tearing him appart.

The witch returned to his ravaged body and found that he was still alive, but barely. In despair for her friend, the witch used magic to stabilize him and molded new body parts out of iron to replace those too damaged. Then she used a spell to cover the new parts with a layer of fake skin to help it look normal. 

Oberon slowly recovered from the event and many years later decided to go his own way. After leaving the witch he decided to remove the skin hiding the iron parts to show everyone what he really was.

Extra: Many many years before his accident, and during the great human ender war, Oberon encountered a very young human girl. He couldn’t bring himself to harm an unarmed human, and ended up befriending her. The girl called him “Obi”, being unable to pronounce his name at the time. 

One day a human raid happened upon the two. The humans attacked Oberon, trying to rescue the girl, but the girl ended up being killed while trying to protect her ender friend. Oberon came to despise humans after that fateful day and slowly became more aggressive towards everyone.

Aly is the only human Oberon cares for because she reminds him so much of the little girl. At times he almost believes Aly is the young girl. He also allows her to call him “Obi” for this reason, but no one else.

Anonymous

Anonymous asked:

do you have a nsfw blog?

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Ehe, no I do not ;w; i’m not so good with that kind of stuff.

And even if I did draw that kind of stuff i’d be too embarrassed to post it ;3;

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