Friendly reminder: You all can like and enjoy things without being involved in a “Fandom”.
In fact do what I do, avoid fandoms like plagues and deadly diseases. They always ruin things for you in the long run, I promise. There is no such thing as a “perfect fandom”. I am not saying everyone in every fandom is bad, of course, but you are just better off liking things on your own rather than it being some group community thing.